I'm 36 this year..uggg. Never thought that would ever come. I've been divorced once - which is more than enough from my point of view. Abusive relationship. Finally woke up one day and it hit me like a ton of bricks..I'm better than this. I own 2 businesses and work for a third. It took me a long time to figure out what i wanted to be when i grew up. I envy people who have done that. My problem is simple, i want to be everything. I think it's really my mom's fault, she told me I could do anything I wanted to do and I believed her.